Ethics of being human (e)
“Integrity is doing right thing even when no one is watching”
The values that a human need to follow in his life is more important to lead a successful life. Respect to others, acceptance of everything, patience, Empathy, sharing, openness, upgrading them is the essential qualities that are most needed to survive as human with humane. We can live as per our wish but certain morality makes to live better and feel better.
“You live only once, but if you do it right, once is enough”
Being honest or being smart, which is more needed to survive? Its true fact, that survival needs more smartness but the worth of living comes only if it is rightly done. Some values are easy to say, hard to practice but it is not impossible. Practice, implementation, with dedication always results sound. But why? We can see some valid reason to follow certain moral ethics in our life.
Let start with integrity. Every day we get some choices, in which we select according to our convenience. We hate to take new way and always wish to walk with path of roses. But once we are fixed to certain honest activities, we will receive beautiful experience, which may look bitter but always gives better.
A self disciplined student, a perfectionist teacher, well mannered employee, dedicated servant never forgotten from our lives. Their role may be small, but their influence is more in all our activities. When we are in the position of rendering services, we compromise ourselves but when we are receiver, we expect truthfulness, honesty, and punctuality from others. Why this?
Human always needs the best but gives the worst to others. Consistency is a concept of ethical integrity. A person with integrity, without knowledge is a weak and loss to a Nation but a person with Knowledge without integrity is a danger to a Nation.
Is it easy?
Never! It is not an easy to follow integrity, it needs courage, boldness, and faith in truth .But it develops untroubled sleeps peace of mind and satisfaction. In daily life, being a person with integrity made not be appreciated and acceptable by others, trust in an person comes when he is inbuilt with commitment, reliability, sincerity etc. Sometimes it results negative impact from the society, it may push us downtrodden, and we may slip from our morality. But facing such situation and surviving with some confidence breaks all hurdles.
Tips to follow:
- Be aware of false
- Not expecting more
- Being patient when we are cornered
- Courage to move on
- Patience to demonstrate
- Willingness to accept
- Longingness for truth
- Be doer not demolisher
Actually moral principles of being a person with good nature is like a holding double edged knife, too risky, need more courage but it helps to be in person in harmony.
“Better to be slapped with a truth than kissed with a lie.”
It cannot be handled by all as it is an angel wand, not seen by all but it grants everything.
Benefits of being morale:
- Always relaxed
- Need no memory to remind every false action
- Never overthrown by negativity
- Surrounded by the true people
- Showers with blessings
- Maintains social character
Finally we are revealed to a society with an inbuilt character. It helps us to be free from false notions but also from living with a facade over our lives. Being credible means that our words line up with the truth. It always keeps us out of trouble. It seems to be difficult, tough and hard to follow, but it actually paves a way to be lived happily.
V Kamatchi Kannan
- brain: Kamatchi Kannan